Teenagers and your problems
There are many young people in our country. Each of
them has his own point of view on his life and his future. There are many
problems which are common for all young people. For example how to spend their
free time, what to do after school, choosing a profession, how to deal with
girl and boy-friends and so on. The problem number one of most of the young
people is the problem of fathers and sons. All young people want to be
independent, they want their parents to listen to their opinion, not to interfere
in their private life. Some parents neglect their children, because they can't
find a common language with each other. Many problems were hushed up, but now
we can speak openly about them. I think that the most difficult and serious
problem of modern teen-ages is drugs. Some young men take drugs, because they
think that will be cool. But they don't understand, that it's wrong. Some of
them can't stop that, and they become dependent on drugs. And they commit
different crimes, because they need some money to buy drugs. There are also
many other problems: alchoholism, smoking and so on. There are many youth
organizations in our country, wich unite young men on different principles.
Members of every organisation have their own world outlook. Each of them has his
own moral qualities. There are some informal organizations, for example:
skinheads, hippies, panks and so on. Now there is also the problem of
misunderstanding beetwen different youth groups. We also face the problem of
managing free time. We can do it in different ways. Some of teenagers spend
their free time in different night clubs. Other young people spend their free
time on the streets. As for me, I spend my free time at home or in night clubs.
I also have some problems with my parents. But every time then i have them I
try to slove them without quarrel. We are young people and we are the future of
our country. Teenagers play an important role in the modern society. Grownups
must remember that we are the future of our country and in present moment our
character is only being formed and that's why our parents must not assert
pressure on us.One of the worst teenage problems is schooling. Sometimes you
feel bad because of teachers’ or classmates’ attitude to you. You are tired of
studying, that’s why you don’t have energy and time for doing other things.
Also I’d like to say that a lot of teens like to look older, that’s why they
obtain bad habits like smoking, drinking, taking drugs, etc. But a teen can
have bad habit because of problems in private life. Absence of the second half,
loneliness, lack of pocket money or parents’ misunderstanding can inspire teen,
that his best friend is a bottle or a cigarette. None should be angry because
of teen’s feelings, because the boy or the girl often doesn’t control his or
her feelings. Streets and street bands can make a teen ruder and crueler,
that’s why parents shouldn’t allow their children to have such interests. I
know a lot of boys and girls, who think that cleaning their room is the most
important problem of humanity. They think it’s boring and useless, because the
room will become dirty 5 minutes later. I think, teens who have mania to comps
are very boring and uninteresting. You can’t speak with them about something
beside of «Sims» or «GTA». It’s a real problem, to my mind. Every teenager has
a favorite singer, writer or sportsman. But no one should become a fan, because
we can kill our individuality and become clones. Sometimes a quarrel between
teens can lead to serious law’s violations. It’s very dangerous! Also bad
relationships between members of the family make the teen very emotional. The
teen doesn’t get3 along with parents and relatives. Parents press on their
child, they think he is iron and he doesn’t feel soul ache. Parents want us to
study very well; they don’t understand that we do everything as good as we can.
They don’t respect our interests thinking that we become strange because of
music or sporty.
I think that
when a person grows and stops being a teen, he or she stops understanding us.
Only teen can understand people, who are the same age as he is. It’s really
difficult to be a teenager!
